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And So It Begins...
Shrouded in darkness I stumbled through the house and out the door. My journey of six states in 3 days begins. I am off to offer training for many people at our Trainer Refinery in Philadelphia, PA. The refinery is located by Delaware, NJ, and Maryland but in PA. Plus I stop in MI and I am going on vacation to MO.
Trey's Progress
It has been a couple days. Sorry for no quick update over the weekend. It was busy.
I have downloaded all the photos from the surgery. You can view them by clicking here. I have to warn you. Some of the pictures are quite gross, I'm in them.
He is doing good. He is starting to walk by himself some today. I stayed home one more day with him so we could work with him some more and he is starting to stretch and bend. I had him bend down to touch his shins. I don't know how much pain and I can tell how much pain he is feeling because I think he doesn't hurt enough to take the bitter tasting meds. We hope he can return to school by Thursday or Friday. He is still walking with quite a limp. That is to be expected.
Dianne and I would like to thank all of you for your nice comments, gifts, and prayers. Trey says, "I'm doing much better because everyone is praying for me."
Jay
Vinita 41 - Dewey 14
It was a hard game to call. Trey Osborne had a good game. The play of the night was a 4th and goal from the 8. Dewey ran a goal line formation and a play action fake to the right. The Vinita defense bit on the fake and let the Dewey TE free and he was all alone in the end zone.
It was frustraiting to watch other than that play. I wish that I could catch my brother-in-law play soon.
Dewey falls to 4 - 1 overall and 1 - 1 in district play.
Bird
Home Sweet Home
Man! It is SO good to be home!!! I miss the care the nursing staff gave us but there is nothing like the friendly confinds of our house.
Trey slept in my recliner and I slept on the couch. The couch isn't my bed but man it slept better than the chairs at the hospital. Dianne had the bed last night but she is still working on her cough with her cold (I watched Forrest Gump last night) and she was worried about Trey so she didn't rest all that well. She gets couch duty tonight so maybe she can sleep better knowing Trey is sleeping fine so she can rest. Plus Trey relieved me from couch duty because I snore too loud.
Sorry I didn't put the pictures on last night. I was too tired to do all that last night. I have a lot to do today so I am not sure I will get to it today or not.
Christi was so happy to see us yesterday. I went out to the yard to see her when Bryon and Tish brought her home. Daddy was just as happy to see his little girl as much as she was happy to see her Daddy. I scooped her up and she wrapped her arms and legs around me and just wanted to melt to me so she could never let me go. She started crying she was so happy. She is Daddy's girl! The easy going feeling for her quickly faded when she saw Trey. She didn't like that Trey got all the attentionn and was being waited on hand and foot. In her little 8 year old mind needed to start hurting some where so she could get some attention. It is hard for me to see Trey show his strenght by never complaining, pushing on through his pain, and not saying a word about how much it hurt. Christi was whining about her eye hurting. I as worn so thin on everything that I jumped on her that she really wasn't hurting all that much. She really doesn't understand all of this and that all the attention Trey is getting he would trade just to not hurt and walk around like she is. Thanks to everyone that has brought her presents to help her still feel included. In a different way she is going through this too and it is just as hard for her.
I am going to call the Dewey/Vinita game tonight. Dewey is currently ranked 9th while Vinita is ranked 6th. If Dewey can win this game they are almost a shoe in for the playoffs. Trey is excited to listen to the game. He is such a big fan of football he will watch or listen to any and all games as possible.
His big beautiful smile is starting to show again. He is feeling so good that he took a walk to the bathroom to use the toilet for the first time since Monday. We had to help him walk there but he did the business all by himself. Gross and TMI I know but it is a big step for him. He watched all of Price Is Right today. He hasn't felt like doing that or has been sleeping all week. Now every 5 minutes he'll read something from the book Come on Down: Behind the Big Doors of the Price Is Right. He got that book before the surgery on Monday. My sister gave him that book. He hasn't felt like reading it until today.
To wrap up this morning Trey wanted to say a few things. Hi everyone! I love you all. Bob Barker is my hero. Back to ESPN. ~ Trey
Bird
Houston, The Trey Bird Has Landed
Trey has arrived! We are now home. He walked in the house with so assistance. He even climbed the stairs. We offered to carry him but he wanted to do it himself.
I have to go get his meds but other than that he is resting comfortable. I have to give up my recliner but that is okay.
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Home, Home Again. I Like To Be There Wiith My Friends.
A little Pink Floyd for your Thursday afternoon drive home. That should be on the radio this afternoon as we get to bring Trey home.
We still have to walk and we have the parting stuff for the exit of the hospital but we will soon be going home and that is most important. All in all it was a general hospital visit although no one died but then showed back up 20 years later because they were just in a coma but that is the days of our lives when we are the young and the restless. If you can't tell I am writting this while Dianne is watching her soaps. Blah!! Give me Sports Center 6 hours straight over soaps. But that is Dianne and me not Trey. Eventhough the site is about me this is deticated to Trey-be this week/month/year or however long it take for Trey to feel better and for me to get bored writting a blog.
The doc came in this morning around 8am and told us the good news about going home.
I was too tired this morning to post up so sorry about the late news today. I spent all night sleeping or trying to sleep in a chair. My neck hurts and my back I am sure will be stiff by tonight. Dianne has come down with the crud that had everyone sick a week or so ago. I thought she needed the rest more so than I did to help her get over this stuff.
I will put some pictures up this afternoon/evening when we download our camera to our PC. I'll try to have that on by 9 this evening.
Trey is wearing a Dartmouth Football shirt home today. Why Dartmouth? My best friend Jeremiah Palmer is attending Dartmouth and he and his wife sent us that shirt. Just another shirt? As Paul says in the Bible, "May it never be!" Jeremiah is battling leukemia right now and is cancer free! This shirt represents to me the will to fight, to acomplish something that others only dream of, and the will to face your giants all while following God's will. That is why he is wearing that shirt. Jeremiah is my other hero. I love you, Jeremiah and Trey. I hope that I can be as strong as you guys someday.
Trey and Monica the Nurse (Trey had a crush on her) as Trey is getting ready to leave for home.
Bird
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Happy Birthday Gaga!
Happy Birthday to my Mom. What a day. She is spending it on her back because she had a shot that knocked her out.
Happy Birthday and enjoy what you can!!
Jay
Touchdown Trey! WOW!! How 'bout That?
The gutzyist play I've seen all year! And I've seen a lot! Trey got out of bed tonight around 10:15 to take a walk. He just wanted to walk to the chair about 5 feet away. We encouraged him to walk to the door. The nurse said that she wanted him to wallk to the nurse's desk about 50 feet away from the door. She was about to let him off easy but he kept pushing himself. It was much like the kid on Facing the Giants that did the crawl all the way across the field to his surprise. That is what Trey did. Way to go Kiddo! He went the last 10 feet to the desk and the rest of the way back all on his own. We were there just for balance.
I want to check with coach Walkingstick from Nowata and coach Revard from Dewey to see if they can get a ball autographed for him.
Heck they may want a ball signed by Trey!
Trey is my hero!
Jay
Visitors
9/25
Kyle Worley
Juanell and Kayla Castleberry
Ron, Joyce, & RaNee Stumpff
Steve & Betty Ann Tomilson
9/26
Ron, Joyce, & RaNee Stumpff
Scott Davis
Evening Two
The nurse on duty tonight just took Trey off the IV. They left the pick line in just in case. We are waiting for more meds to keep him from getting sick. It is Zofran. He will get the lortab at 8:20. We are going to try to take him for another walk around 8:30.
No visitors tonight except for my Dad and my sister. My Mom came earlier today.
Doctor's Visit 9/26 9:00PM
The doctor has just came in to see Trey. The doctor is a bit concerned about the swelling in that it could swell so much that it could pop some stitches. It hasn't so far. He said that if he can get the oral antibiotics down tomorrow morning he can go home.
The challenges we face now, the prayers for tonight are for Trey to be able to walk okay tonight, keep the meds down without throwing up, getting him to drink and take some food, and how Christi will handle everything once we get home. She can easily be overlooked right now and crush her. Trey can consume so much attention that Christi is normally left out or gets very little attention. We'll need help with her when we get back.
Balloons
Thank you to whomever sent the balloons. There was not a card attached so I do not know who sent them.
Trey likes them but balloons really bother him. His sister torments him with balloons so he doesn't care a whole lot for baloons.
Trey appreciates the the gift.
Sleep
Its funny to look at a room full of people sleeping. Trey got back in to bed after making a LONG trip to the bathroom door. The nurse charges in every so often making as much noise as possible. We are so tired that we want to sleep. She wants Trey to get up at least two more times before bedtime. When you sleep all day, is there really a bedtime?
Trey was given flexareal to help with the cramps. So that helps him sleep too. The pain meds made him throw up and the anti-sick meds make him sleepy. All the boy wants to do is sleep but this nurse (Cratchet) wants to wake us all up. I've grown to not like her.
Trey's face is so swollen! I will post up pictures when I get home and if Trey agrees of course. I want to take away the pain and keep him still be it is unnatural to try to get him to move around.
YUCK!!! They just brought in "dinner" for him. They gave him blended cheese and broccoli soup. He' d' gag around forcing him to eat that even if he wasn't sick. There is no way I would make him try it.
Thanks for those of you that have posted up on the site. If you read through my site you might notice this is the most I've ever written to the site. More than double all of last year. Keep the postings comming.
About my last entry "Up and At 'Em". When I was little I always wondered why I was being called Adam - Up and Adam.
Bird
Up and At 'Em
Trey got up out of bed with a little assistance and is now sitting in a chair. He got in the chair and went back to sleep. He'd been laying the same way for 24 hours. So it is good for him to move around. He's been sick again today. He doesn't like the taste of his medicine.
The doctor said that he'll stay tonight again tonight. Dianne ran home with my dad to get some clean change of clothes for us and to get chargers for our cell phones. She'll be bqck later.
Long Night - Even Longer Morning
It was a very long night. I had night duty. I stayed up until 5AM this morning. He slept almost all night. He woke up around 3AM and we had a nice long talk. I had to call the nurses to get his pain meds every 3 hours. They didn't come quick nor did they keep to their schedule. I had to remind them each time. Trey has gone through 2 IV bags since yesterday but he is drinking very little fluids. His leg has had cramps all night and this morning. They are hurting him almost as bad as everything else!
Trey's mouth has swollen to the size of a baseball. It is hard for him to press his lips together to suck on straws so we are going back to the days when he was a baby and giving him a liquid diet through syringes with tubes attached to the end where the needle goes. He's taken some oral meds like that this morning which is better for him because he cannot come home until he's off the moriphine and is able to get out of bed.
Poor Little guy. Man this is swollen.
The doctor said that we are where we should be at this time. All is expected at this time. He said that we may need to spend another night tonight.
Trey is such a strong person and doesn't complain about any pain unless it really hurts. He has been crying in pain today. It is hard to watch him go through it. I wish I could take his place. I really miss his wonderful smile and his beautiful laugh.
I want to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers. You can leave comments on any article on the site and I will post them up here for Trey to read. It is easier than reading email for him. You will not see the post right away because I have to approve them. Otherwise I would have to have everyone sign in to view the site.
Oh by the way the little screamer from yesterday is back at it again today. And I never tossed any cookies. Whew!
Trey says hi to all and wishes he could see everyone.
Bird